{"id":641,"date":"2022-02-17T03:04:00","date_gmt":"2022-02-17T03:04:00","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"2023-01-10T13:02:19","modified_gmt":"2023-01-10T13:02:19","slug":"can-type-a-and-type-b-personalities-date-each-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/magazine.circledna.com\/can-type-a-and-type-b-personalities-date-each-other\/","title":{"rendered":"Can Type A And Type B Personalities Date Each Other?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Type A and Type B personalities are two of the most commonly recognized personality types in psychology. These personality types are often presented as polar opposites. This is because the Type A individuals are typically decisive, focused, organized, structured and meticulous while Type Bs tend to be more laidback, even-tempered, spontaneous and free-flowing.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to assume their contrasting personalities would make a relationship between a Type A and Type B impossible. However, the reality is that sometimes, opposites attract and balance each other out. There can be many benefits of a Type A dating a Type B instead of a Type A dating another Type A.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"kg-card kg-image-card\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.unsplash.com\/photo-1485182708500-e8f1f318ba72?ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;ixid=MnwxMjA3fDB8MHxzZWFyY2h8MTR8fHBlb3BsZSUyMGNvcnBvcmF0ZXxlbnwwfHwwfHw%3D&amp;w=1000&amp;q=80\" class=\"kg-image\" alt=\"circlemagazine-circledna-type-a\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<h2 id=\"benefits-of-combining-type-a-and-type-b-personalities-in-a-relationship\">Benefits of Combining Type A and Type B Personalities in a Relationship<\/h2>\n<p>Type A individuals are typically quite organized, capable of planning or structuring, and good at making decisions on behalf of themselves and their partner. <strong>While someone \u201ctaking charge\u201d might seem frustrating to another Type A, a Type B\u2019s laidback nature means they\u2019re often happy to go with the flow and let their partner decide things.<\/strong> In fact, it might even be a relief to they Type B to not have to make the decisions.<\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, the more relaxed attitude of a Type B partner can help to reign in some of a Type A\u2019s more obsessive personality traits. For instance, a Type B individual can let their Type A partner know they\u2019re expecting too much of themselves or pushing themselves too hard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Other benefits of combining the personalities in a relationship include:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Conflict resolution:<\/strong> A competitive attitude can mean Type A personalities struggle with resolving conflicts. Type B\u2019s are more likely to find a middle ground and develop ways to compromise, so everyone wins. (When two Type As argue with each other, it\u2019s more likely to escalate.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Motivation:<\/strong> Type A personalities can encourage Type B individuals to accomplish their goals and help them plan strategies for success. This makes it more likely the Type B partner will seize opportunities and accomplish important goals.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Flexibility:<\/strong> Type A personalities often need a lot of focus time, and time to themselves. A Type B partner is happy to give their partner whatever they need and can be flexible to suit someone else\u2019s schedule.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 id=\"challenges-of-a-type-a-personality-dating-a-type-b\">Challenges of a Type A Personality Dating a Type B<\/h2>\n<p>The above benefits of combining personality types don\u2019t mean there aren\u2019t challenges to a relationship between people with opposing personality types. There\u2019s a risk a Type A personality could end up walking all over a Type B partner because the Type B individual doesn\u2019t know how to ask for what they want or be direct about their needs, and insead accepts what\u2019s given. This can lead to resentment over time and may end up making both partners unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>Similarly, a Type A personality can end up getting frustrated or stressed by a Type B\u2019s laidback or more disorganized approach to life. Type A\u2019s often need everything in their world to be \u201cjust so.\u201d If a Type B doesn\u2019t care enough to plan anything, doesn\u2019t follow direction well or doesn\u2019t get things done according to the Type A\u2019s expectations, this can lead to problems in the relationship. Often, this depends on just how \u201cType A\u201d a Type A individual is. <strong>Some Type A individuals might have zero patience for the carefree and unfocused attitude of their Type B partner<\/strong>, while other Type As may find their partner\u2019s carefree qualities inspiring or endearing.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s possible the Type A personality type may become tired of doing all the organizing all the time<\/strong>, if the Type B they\u2019re dating is particularly disorganized. This will vary, since every Type B is different.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"kg-card kg-image-card\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.unsplash.com\/photo-1529175283207-194a414b9ffa?ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;ixid=MnwxMjA3fDB8MHxzZWFyY2h8M3x8ZGF0ZXxlbnwwfHwwfHw%3D&amp;w=1000&amp;q=80\" class=\"kg-image\" alt=\"circlemagazine-circledna-type-a\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/figure>\n<h2 id=\"what-happens-when-two-of-the-same-personality-types-date-each-other\">What Happens When Two of the Same Personality Types Date Each Other?<\/h2>\n<p>So, what happens if you bring two of the same personalities together? For example, a <a target=\"_new0.5090165785597792\" href="\&quot;https:\/\/circledna.com\/blog\/5-romantic-stay-at-home-date-ideas\/\&quot;" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Type B dating another Type B<\/a> or two Type As getting together?<\/p>\n<p>Once again, there are pros and cons to this combination.<\/p>\n<p>Two<a target=\"_new0.5090165785597792\" href="\&quot;https:\/\/www.bustle.com\/p\/7-signs-you-need-a-type-b-partner-9586652\&quot;" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> type B personalities<\/a> dating will often enjoy a stress-free and relaxed relationship. Neither will push the other too hard or become unhappy when high expectations aren\u2019t met. Because both partners are flexible and easygoing, they can easily be forgiving when things don\u2019t get accomplished quite right.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, two Type B personalities in a relationship can also be problematic. If no one takes charge and makes decisions, both can end up floating along getting nothing done. Procrastination can become a real problem, which means important tasks are left uncompleted. Eventually, the people in this relationship may start to feel they\u2019re getting nowhere.<\/p>\n<p>Two<a target=\"_new0.5090165785597792\" href="\&quot;https:\/\/www.charleneeckstein.com\/blog\/type-a-personality-relationships\&quot;" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> Type A personalities<\/a> create the ultimate power couple. If both individuals are highly driven and ambitious, they can accomplish a lot together. One Type A doesn\u2019t have to worry about the other understanding their specific needs, and there\u2019s no frustration due to procrastination.<\/p>\n<p>However, combining two Type A personalities can also lead to a lot of fighting or pushback. Just because you\u2019re both highly driven doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ll agree on the things you consider to be important. You may end up arguing about everything from what to have for dinner to what color to paint the bedroom walls. Because both personalities are dominant, you can end up with a constant power struggle.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"how-to-discover-your-personality-type\">How to Discover Your Personality Type<\/h2>\n<p>Defining personality type isn\u2019t an exact science. While most people do fall into one category more than others, your personality may be a culmination of different \u201ctypes.\u201d For instance, you may have the ambitious drive and perfectionism of a Type A person in your career but be more driven by romance and have a laid-back nature in your personal life.<\/p>\n<p>One of the easiest ways to determine your personality type is with an online quiz. These quizzes use specific questions to determine what<a target=\"_new0.5090165785597792\" href="\&quot;https:\/\/openpsychometrics.org\/tests\/AB.php\&quot;" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"> thought processes drive your behavior<\/a>. Most quizzes will look beyond type A and type B, to give you insights into type C, D, and even Type X.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, our personalities are complex and multifaceted things.<\/p>\n<p>Notably, there\u2019s no \u201cbad\u201d personality type to be associated with. Not all type \u201cAs\u201d will step on their co-workers to climb the career ladder or annoy their partners with their perfectionism. Not all Type \u201cB\u2019s\u201d are laid back to the point of being lazy.<\/p>\n<p>How would you define your personality type?<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re not entirely sure, and you want more insight into your personality traits that may be written into your DNA, read your personality and behavior reports from <a target=\"_new0.5090165785597792\" href="\&quot;https:\/\/circledna.com?utm_source=blog&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=bau&amp;utm_format=article&amp;utm_creator=&amp;utm_content=can-type-a-and-type-b-personalities-date-each-other\&quot;">CircleDNA<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Type A and Type B personalities are two of the most commonly recognized personality types in psychology. These personality types are often presented as polar opposites. 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